People do question and judge.
when they don't even know your name, they judge your looks, already.
"he/she looks rich!" "he/she looks so zhuai (arrogant)" "he/she looks stuck-up" "he/she looks so shuai/chio"..
if the person meets your perference, he/she becomes your friend. even if you are turn off or felt very bu shuang then, you might still become friends because of somebody or something that just ironically link you two together.
when they get to know you, they still judge. You are not a good friend can be broken down to many bits and pieces.
"ya so buay on!" "you big mouth leh" "are you very fake?" "why are you such an attention grabber?" "your attitude sucks!" and the list can just go on..
after knowing for sometime, you might find the person attractive or so clickable. and you might want to get another step closer to him/her. then you will, again, start to question.
"is the person mature?" "can give sense of security not?" "will commit/play play one?" "will my friends /and family like him/her?" "future together?" ...........
why do we have so many doubts and impose on our brain to think and think and think when there isn't any ideal answer ahead for us to discover unless we experience it.
the person gets together with you as a couple as he/she fits your bill. your brain is put to work for illogical reasons.
"is this person really the one for me?" "he/she treat me well?" "he/she you sim?"..........
these questions generate on its own. this production shall not end, if you were to forecast.
some of us love to end with a question mark instead of a fullstop. some stubborn ones are insistent of their misjudgement, putting others happiness at stake. some sober ones view many question marks to be redundant and should just end it; end it with a fullstop. some foolish-boos rather to continue it with commas and regenerate question marks in the process again.
However, at least they are judging for what they see and think. I mean THEY, they themselves k.
i read something today that inspires me to writing all these junk, pardon me. he was about to set out his pursue for this particular pretty gurlie. all his friends' opinions towards whether he should jio her were very positive as it's based on looks mah. then when the gurlie finally has the chance to sit down and converse with his friends, the table was overturned. his friends hate her for her snobbishness and for being such immature lady. because of his friends' sided judgement, he stopped his pursuit. people question and people always judge, but he is judging not just on the gurl but also taking his friends' feelings into consideration. erm, i don't know what i'm blabbering here, just find guys who put friends before himself and his gurl/potential one sucky. I despise these sort of men! they live for others and not for their own.
anyways, each for his own.
*missing honey*
